How do I include the heading of the table of contents in the table of contents?

I am preparing a table of contents in InDesign CS3 (Macintosh OSX 10.5.8)

I have added all the paragraph styles to the list of paragraph styles I want to appear in my Table of Contents.

However, I would also like the table of contents itself to appear in the table of contents:

In case the table of contents is placed on page 3, it want it to look like this

Table of contents:

Title page....page 1

Acknowledgements...page 2

Table of contents ...page 3

Table of figure...page 6

Chapter 1...page 10

and so on..

I have included the paragraph style in the list of paragraph styles I want have appearing in my table of contents. But this does not result in an entry in my table of contents that is named 'table of contents'.

I would be grateful for any kind of advice.

Thanks in advance